WEST LAFAYETTE, Ind. – Adam Soldati's vision of what was possible for diving at Purdue University started with creating the environment in which young adults could thrive and become champions. Ultimately, he became the bedrock of transforming a sporting discipline with a very individual spotlight into a true familial atmosphere.
Perspective was always paramount for Soldati in conveying his most important messages – only worry about what you can control and have faith in a higher power. It's the impact on the lives of others where a coach really builds his legacy. Nearly 20 years of diving alumni will attest to how the perspective and faith they learned from Soldati still impacts their lives, whether it be as citizens, spouses, colleagues, neighbors or parents.
As Purdue's diving coach since the spring of 2005, Soldati's environment and perspective at the Morgan J. Burke Aquatic Center helped cultivate Olympians, NCAA champions, Big Ten champions, All-Americans and University graduates. Simultaneously, he was building his own family with his wife, Kimiko. She was pregnant with the first of their six children when they came to West Lafayette in 2005. The Soldati Family and Purdue Diving Family were often times intertwined because both were equally important to Adam and Kimiko.
Another testament to Soldati's steadfast leadership of the program is he had the foresight to prepare a succession plan for the role of head coach – as his greatest pupil, Olympic champion David Boudia, became his protégé. Unfortunately, that succession plan ultimately needed to be fully deployed this year instead of perhaps the end of this decade.
After more than a year of doctor visits and tests, Soldati was officially diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS) in February. The Soldati Family has begun the initial stages for the fight ahead, one that Adam will face gallantly with the same gratefulness, guts and grit that have made him Purdue Athletics' most successful coach of the last 20 years.
The perspective and wisdom that Soldati has already demonstrated in the months since learning of his diagnosis have encouraged many. He has chosen not to look at the situation as an untenable development, but rather as an opportunity to inspire others. His faith has always been paramount to his life's work and his relationships with his student-athletes, colleagues and family. It is the strength that he derives from his faith that powers his perspective and perseverance, which in turn will lay the foundation for the fight ahead.
When Purdue Athletics offered alumni, current Boilermakers and colleagues the opportunity to share their memories and words of the thanks for Coach Soldati, the tributes steadily rolled in. This is an opportunity to read all the submissions honoring a man who achieved his goal of creating an environment where a diver can become a champion.
Support the Soldati Family with a contribution to the GoFundMe established for them.
STATEMENTS FROM SOLDATI & BOUDIA
Adam Soldati – Purdue Head Diving Coach (2005-Present)
Well, friends this is where the 'rubber hits the road' for Kimiko and me.This diagnosis offers me the opportunity to live out the wisdom and truth that I have learned and shared over the past 30 years of coaching.
I often shared with my teams that the human experience will inevitably bring trials, suffering, pain, loss. But it is these very companions that can shape and transform us as a human being, depending on how we appropriate them in our lives.Want to know what you fear?Want to know what you truly trust in?Want to know your weaknesses and just how insufficient you are at controlling your life?Trials and suffering will reveal those in technicolor and if we have the courage (and honesty with ourselves) to consider these things and understand them rightly, they will purpose us into more beautiful people.For this, I am grateful.
Again and again I coached my athletes to try and take every thought captive; to answer their fears by putting the gloves on and truly facing them; to live in actual reality and not a self-conceived/deceived, intention-laced non-reality; to understand what we can and can't control – that the world is full of complexities; to live and compete for something greater than ourselves; and ultimately what brings joy is serving others.Indeed, teaching these daily have prepared me for this current season. For this, I am so thankful.
My athletes often heard from me that all of us place our hope for joy and happiness and meaning on 'something.'The crucial question is can that 'something' be taken away?Is our hope in our health?Careers?Relationships with family/friends?Finances or comforts? Success or status and influence?I hope not. If our happiness is dependent on 'something' that can be destroyed by suffering, disease and even death then we are susceptible to the 'unfair' storms of life tossing us to and from on their vicious waves or crushing us when they arrive.
For Kimiko and me, God's love is something that can never be destroyed by anything life or death will throw at us.We are able to suffer 'well' and face this next season with assurance and hope (even with sadness), NOT because of our commitment to God but because we are – probably more than ever in our lives – confident of God's commitment to us.Our relationship with God through Jesus canneverbe taken away or threatened.By anything – even ALS.For this, I have great peace.
Will this next season be challenging?Most certainly.Will this be scary?Probably.Will I fail and stumble as I navigate it?No doubt.But, will I do it alone?Never – not for a single moment.I have a God who suffered so I would never be alone in mine.
Kimiko, our kids and I are overwhelmed at the outpouring of responses, love and support to the announcement.It helps fuel the fire inside of us as we face this next season.It's our time to fight and let's go to war.I am confident that this will produce something more remarkable than if it were not for the trial and diagnosis.Thank you!And blessing to all!
David Boudia (2008-Present – Student-Athlete 2008-11, Full-Time Assistant Coach 2021-Present)
In February, Sonnie and I received the news from Adam's wife, Kimiko, that he has been diagnosed with ALS. For the months since, I have not been to think of the words to write about my coach, mentor, second father and friend.
In the realm of sports, Adam Soldati's name is synonymous with excellence. Ask anyone who has encountered him and you will undoubtedly hear words like integrity, humble, faith, passionate, steadfast and love. As a revered coach and mentor, Adam has left an enduring mark in the world of diving. His legacy is not merely measured by wins and accolades, but rather by the last effect of his coaching philosophy, which transcends the technicalities of diving.
His coaching career is defined by his profound commitment and unique giftedness to unlock the potential within each athlete – nurturing their character and growth, both as competitors (and more importantly) as human beings. Beyond the countless achievements as Coach like the tender heart of a devoted and selfless servant – a beloved husband to Kimiko, a cherished father to his six children and a friend to all he encountered.
To know Adam is to like Adam. He is a man who fiercely loves competition, sacrificially serves his family and community, and whose poise and affirmation has always brought out the best in his athletes and colleagues. This is a man who loves life, embraces adversity and has always found a way for obstacles and opposition to be the pathway to greater love, joy and personal growth.
Since becoming a coach just after my diving career concluded, I began coaching alongside Adam at Purdue. It always been the plan to switch roles soon after he retired from coaching. That plan came all too soon, I am humbled and honored to step in as head coach at Purdue to continue the legacy that Adam has built. My appeal to those reading this is to help us raise funds for Adam and his family as the cost to fight this devastating disease is steep. Support the Soldati Family via the GoFundMe established to help them.
DIVING ALUMNI
Casey (Matthews) Spitz (2008-14)
I have so many things to say about this wonderful man. If there was ever a person to transcend description, it's Adam. He has had such an immense and profound impact on my life and has literally helped shape me into the woman I am today. During the six years that I had the privilege of competing for and representing Purdue, he taught me so much. From resilience, to perseverance, confidence, believing in myself and competing for something bigger than myself, to let go of the things I can't control, the list goes on. Invaluable life lessons that I will never take for granted.
As a former diver of his, I saw and felt firsthand how he balanced compassion and kindness with the relentless pursuit of excellence. He made everyone that he touched a better athlete, but more importantly a better person. For that I am forever thankful and grateful. I'll be thinking of you and Kimiko and your family and praying for you as you tackle this next chapter head on!
Steele Johnson (2014-19)
Adam has had an incredible impact on my life. When I first met with Adam to discuss the potential of training at Purdue, he made it clear to me that his goal was to first help me become a great person, and then help me become a great athlete. From the moment I started training under Adam, that sentiment rang true. Adam is one of the greatest coaches the sport of diving will ever see. He also is one of the greatest mentors I could have ever asked for. Adam invested so much time into helping me learn how to navigate all aspects of my life, in and out of the pool. I went from a teenager who was trying to accomplish an Olympic dream, to an adult who achieved that dream and more than I could've ever imagined. In the highs, Adam was right there to celebrate with me. In the lows, he was waiting with encouragement.
One of the biggest things Adam taught me was the importance of maintaining perspective. He always helped me see the big picture. As a man of faith, his faith has had a massive impact on me and helped shape my own faith journey. No matter the time of day, if I had a question he was always willing to share wisdom. And it wasn't just the words he said that impacted me, but the way he walked out his faith daily. Adam is consistent. I got to see him live consistently for the nine years that I trained at Purdue. Those are years that I will cherish forever.
Adam, thank you for the ways you invested in me over the years. I wouldn't be the man I am today without your leadership, guidance and friendship. Love you, Coach.
Emily (Bretscher) Pfeiffer(2017-22)
How could I ever put into words what Adam has meant to me? I'm not really sure, but this I know for certain, my life would not be what it is today if it weren't for Adam, Kimiko, and the whole Soldati Family. The list goes on forever of the countless memories – from jamming in the car to the Greatest Showman before a Big Ten final, to speed charades with the whole team on New Year's Eve in Florida, to words of truth in times of struggle, to yelling with excitement bursting out the doors right after my husband and I got engaged. He never failed to be there. He never failed to know what to say. He always brings joy and light into every room and every situation. He always shows all of us love and grace that is unending.
Yes, he is one of the greatest diving coaches of all time (hands down), but what truly makes him great is that he is a part of something far beyond the sport of diving. For this lesson, I am the most grateful. He taught me that there is so much more to life than diving, that there is something so much greater than my success on the pool deck or off of it. He taught me that Jesus is greater than anything this world has to offer. That diving will fade, success will fade, our bodies will fade, but Jesus – His presence, His sacrifice, His love – will last for eternity. He taught and teaches this to every person he meets, simply by the way he lives with an unspeakable joy, a hope even in the face of death, and a love that never ends. I am completely heartbroken over the journey the Lord is allowing Adam to go on. But I am clinging to this hope that Coach didn't just teach me about, but lived out every day on the pool deck. I love you Coach, more than words can say.
Danny Cox (2007-11)
Adam was always a presence in the diving world even from a young age. I remember visiting a good friend down in Texas and training with Soldati and loving every minute. His energy and passion were so infectious to everyone in the pool. Years later, Adam recruited me to Purdue and I knew it was meant to be. Throughout my time at Purdue, Adam wasn't just my coach, he was a father figure. His passion for diving was dwarfed by his passion to help me grow to be a better man. He guided me to faith of God through personal trials and tribulations, and just being an unbelievable example as a father and a friend. I couldn't be more grateful for Adam, Kimiko, and all the Soldati Family for being a shining light, always, and for truly impacting who I am today. You are amazing Adam and your impact on my life will last forever. Love you Coach!
MacKenzine Tweardy (2011-15)
My first memory of Adam was walking into dryland while he was pulling belts. I think he was about seven feet in the air, maybe even upside down, wearing flip-flops and gloves, yelling gibberish, and also coaching one of his divers. I remember thinking to myself what is this guy doing ... and also how can I be a part of it. Adam's infectious energy, passion, and love for life came through before he even said hello to me. Almost two years later, I started school at Purdue and was met with that same exact passion and energy every single day.
Recently I was back on campus and sitting in Adam's office, surrounded by the insane accomplishments that he has achieved, demonstrating how he is objectively one of the greatest diving coaches of all time. Yet, even with the sheer number of plaques, metals, and Olympic flags that hang on his office walls, when talking to any one of the athletes that have been lucky enough to be coached by him – we'd all agree that his greatest achievement as a coach is unrelated to the accomplishments on the pool deck, but rather his impact on our lives outside of the water. Congrats on an amazing career, Coach, and thanks for everything.
Carrie (McCambridge) Karkoska (2002-06)
I only had one year under Adam's guidance. In Adam's first year at Purdue I was a senior. He easily could have looked at me, figured I only had a year left, and cruised it in. Instead he invested massive amounts of energy into my diving, and me as a person. He brought infectious enthusiasm, passion, and joy to a sport I had forgotten how to love. He made my senior year memorable, challenging, and worth every ounce of effort. Adam saw us as athletes and pushed us to be our best, but he also saw us as humans and walked that balance with amazing success. Excellence was the expectation but Adam ALWAYS lead by example.
I cannot thank Adam enough for the chance he took on me, and the love he has poured into Purdue Diving. It is an honor to be included in part of his legacy in the diving world and an even bigger honor to consider him a friend. We will be cheering and praying for the whole Soldati and Purdue Family during this next challenge. Boiler Up, Hammer Down, Hail Purdue.
Katie (Berg) Jakobsson(2004-08)
I was coached by Adam when he came to the Woodlands and later at Purdue from 2006-2008. I was involved in Adam's hiring process as well.
There are no real words for how much Adam has had an impact on my life. He was always more than a coach. He has always had such a passion for coaching that stretches beyond the pool. This allows him to help his athletes grow and succeed in many aspects of life. Even though it has been a few years since Adam was my coach, I think about things he had said and am reminded of him often. I wouldn't be the person I am today without him. I try to help pass on his words of wisdom to my children, as well as trying to embody them as a preschool teacher and a soon to be diving coach again. My family is sending our love and prayers and wants to let Adam know that the people he has touched across the globe are sending him strength and prayers.
Lately I have been thinking about the interview process in 2005 and I am so thankful that everyone on the team and the university was willing to give you a chance. I had no doubts in my mind that you were going to do great things. You are a true inspiration. Your perseverance and Boiler Strong attitude are an inspiration.God Bless.We send our love and strength to you and your family. – Katie, Erik, Sofie & Björn
JP Perez (2007-11)
I have a lot to thank Adam for. I didn't know it back then but he would one day play a huge role in the success of my future outside of the pool. I knew immediately on my recruiting trip that Purdue was the school for me and Adam was the coach I needed. For five years, thanks to a rocky sophom*ore year, he helped shape me, coach me, and plant little seeds of wisdom and strength in my head.
At a low point in my collegiate career, he stood by me and encouraged me to not give up. It's because of him I learned to work hard for the things I want in life. The list of memories of my time as a Boilermaker diver could go on and on but one that stands out is my senior year. I had taken the entire year off of diving 10-meter because of a shoulder injury, but Adam encouraged me to give it one last go at NCAAs to close out my career. That was the competition that made me an NCAA All-American and it shows just how incredible of a coach he is. There was also that time I skipped Saturday practice for Breakfast Club and he hit me with the most brutal conditioning I've ever had in my life. I learned a valuable lesson that week.
I'm 14 years retired now and still think about Adam and everything he gave me. He really is one the most amazing people to enter my life and I'm eternally grateful for that. Ever Grateful, Ever True.
Samm Reese (2014-18)
It is hard to put into words the immense impact Adam has had on my life, and I'm sure all of the other athletes he has coached.
I remember one year at Purdue, I was having a heavy mental block on a dive amongst other things in my life as well. It was so frustrating at practice and I couldn't seem to get past it. Luckily Purdue offers amazing resources to our athletes and Adam suggested I see our sports psychologist, which I was very open to. But aside from that, Adam decided to also personally assist me in this process. We met outside of the pool at Café Literato (best caprese sandwich I've ever had by the way) and sat in a room together with a white board to talk about my headspace. Adam being the wise listener and teacher he is, decided to map out visually on the white board what my "fear" had looked like. What is fear? Where does it come from? What are the emotions that come up? How do we not give in to our feelings of fear? What are the obstacles? And how do we put into practice the way to overcome them?
I had never had a coach take so much time and attention into dissecting what was going on in my head, which was affecting my mental state and in turn, my performance in the sport I care so deeply about. I was in awe of his wisdom and his willingness to get to the root of the problem by talking it out and putting it all right in front of me visually. I remember learning so much about myself and the fact that I have the control over the response to my thoughts/feelings/emotions. It opened up a new world to me in life and in my diving career.
Adam is just that type of person to genuinely care about you as a person and the things you may be going through. He is ALWAYS willing to help in whatever way he can, and constantly does it with the biggest cheesiest smile on his face. I will forever cherish the lessons he taught me, the loving relationship that he has with his divers and those close to him, and for all of the incredible memories that I have of him as my coach and as a diver at Purdue.
These are experiences and memories that have shaped me as a human being, and will continue to shape me for the rest of my life. Thank you SO MUCH Adam. You have touched the lives of so many and I know you will only continue to do so. We love you Soldati!!!!
Jamie Bissett (2011-15)
Adam, do you remember when you called me a lunchbag letdown? Because I do – and I think it was one of your greatest coaching moments.
It was during my freshman year at one of my first-ever practices at Purdue. I couldn't tell you what dive I had done, but after you kindly explained the meaning of that expression, I replied saying it was the rudest thing anybody had ever said to me. It wasn't. And don't worry, I know you meant no malice.
In fact, the reason it struck a chord with me is because it so accurately reflected one of my greatest fears. At that time, I was unsure if I wanted to continue diving through college, and this was compounded by the fact that I was intimidated by the legacy of Purdue Diving – the pantheon of divers that came before me and the caliber of athlete in my recruiting class. We're talking Big Ten champions, NCAA All-Americans, World Championship medalists, Olympians – how was I meant to live up to that? I was scared that while I may have looked promising through the recruiting process, I would ultimately fail to live up to your expectations and the standard of excellence that is Purdue Diving.
Despite my self-doubt, I was certain about one thing: my respect for you as a coach. From the moment I arrived on campus, you treated me as more than just an athlete and you fostered an environment that made Purdue feel like home. I was so appreciative of the opportunity you afforded me to attend a top-tier university and train amongst a team of world-class athletes that I promised myself I would not let you down – I would not be a lunchbag letdown.
Over the coming years, you became a mentor, friend and father figure, teaching me so much more about life than I ever could have imagined. You extended tremendous grace and patience in helping me navigate the challenges I faced during my time as a student-athlete and never gave up on me – even when I wanted to give up on myself.
I may have begun my tenure at Purdue as a lunchbag letdown, but with your guidance, I left a national champion. You helped me exceed my goals as an athlete and are the reason I consider my diving career to have been a success. Thank you, Adam, for all that you've done for Purdue Diving and congratulations on an esteemed career. You have undoubtedly cemented yourself as one of the greats and I am honored to have been a part of your coaching legacy. Boiler Up!
Emily Meaney (2016-20)
Adam has been one of the biggest influences and mentors in my adult life so far. He so openly and warmly welcomed me into not only the Boilermaker family, but also his own family. I can't put into words the impact both Adam and Kimiko have had on my journey as a diver and more importantly my journey as a person. He gave a little Aussie the opportunity to be surrounded by one of the most phenomenal environments and to be a part of something bigger than us all. And for that, I am truly grateful.
Thank you, thank you, thank you Adam for continuing to inspire me, for pushing me to be the best version of myself, and for solidifying a strong set of values in me. My thoughts and wishes are with you and your family at this time, and always.
Joe Cifelli (2015-19)
My first interaction with Adam was my senior year of high school. He called me from the World Cup in China to tell me about the Purdue program, and instead, we spent about an hour talking about my life, my family, and who I am as a person. This theme would hold true throughout my whole time at Purdue. Adam pushed me to be the best student-athlete I could be, but ultimately, he pushed me to be the best person I could be – to be forgiving, to show love to others, and most importantly, to not let my identity get so caught up in the aspects of life that don't truly matter in the end. I will always be thankful for Adam. It goes without saying that the entire Soldati Family will always have an army of support behind them because of how much love Adam and Kimiko have given to all of us lucky enough to be a part of the Purdue Diving program.
To Adam – I know you'll handle this with the same grace you've handled everything else life has thrown at you, but please know that we've got you the same way you've always had us! Sending you, Kimiko, and the rest of the Soldati Family my love.
Mary Beth (Dunnichay) Feichter (2011-16)
It's difficult to express the profound impact Adam Soldati has had on my life. After recognizing what Adam stood for, I remember immediately canceling my other college visits, deciding on the spot to become a Boilermaker. It was one of the best decisions I've ever made.
Throughout those five years, Adam was always there for us. Whether we needed a hug, words of wisdom, guidance, or even some tough love, he provided it. A moment I will never forget is when Adam and his wife Kimiko shared the gospel with me and gave me my first Bible. That conversation remains vivid in my memory and I continue to read from that same Bible today. Adam has been a role model for me in my faith, for which I am eternally grateful.
Adam and Kimiko genuinely changed my life, helping to shape the person I am today. I even asked Adam to speak at my wedding because of the special place he holds in my heart.
I can't thank Adam enough for all he has done for me. My family and I are here for you, praying for you during this difficult time. We know you are a fighter and want you to know that we are with you. Ever Grateful, Ever True. Love you, Adam.
Steven LoBue (2003-07)
"It's not my job to create champions, it's my job to create an environment where you can become a champion." – Adam Soldati
Adam joined Purdue as I was entering my junior year. During the hiring process, the athletes were given the opportunity to interview the candidates and from the very beginning it was clear there was no other choice. Like many collegiate athletes, I'd been exposed to multiple coaches over my career and there was no denying that there was something truly special about Adam.
Though I only had the privilege of diving with Adam half of my collegiate career, they would undoubtedly be the most enlightening years of my life. His passion and enthusiasm sparked inspiration from day one. His commitment, integrity, humility, selflessness and desire to improve were on full display as he fervently pursued his vision of creating an environment where ANYONE could become a champion. That environment extended well beyond the pool as Adam welcomed us into his home and family life, modeling acts of love, empathy, compassion and faith that made athletes feel like part of the family.
The results of Adam's coaching were immediate, clear, and consistent, and for the first time in my career I saw what it meant to be a great coach. I saw a man selflessly give all of himself to the sport he loved, to the athletes he coached and the pursuit of developing us all into decent humans, and to his family every step of the way.
I will forever be grateful to Adam for igniting my passion for coaching. I feel genuinely honored to carry and share his wisdom and knowledge with future generations. He is truly a man worthy of emulation in and out of the pool and I can only hope to continue inspiring athletes the way he has done for so many years. Love you coach!
Kara Cook (2007-11)
There will never be adequate words to convey Adam's impact on my life. He is an unbelievable coach and mentor, a devoted husband, an exemplary father and, truly, the best person I know. Adam made me want to dive well – for him, for Purdue and for myself. He instilled confidence in me at points in my diving career when I had none. He never pushed too hard, never gave up on me, never faltered from being my rock during those four years competing at Purdue. I learned so much from Adam, and most of it not even relating to diving. He is truly an exceptional human being that has never been far from my mind in the 13 years I've been away from Purdue and the world of diving. I will forever cherish the opportunity to be one of his athletes; what an honor it was!
Ben Bramley (2017-21)
Adam, I will be forever grateful for the opportunity to dive at Purdue and be a part of your team. I think my favorite memories are of the first day of every meet. We'd roll into an early practice at the pool and you'd be on your eighth coffee of the morning – screaming "Let's Gooo!" – while everyone else was still rubbing their eyes and trying to wake up. This infectious excitement would slowly work its way through the group and by the time we were finally jumping in the water, we'd be ready to take on all the challenges and pressures a new competition brings. Whether a meet was a personal best or a personal worst, you always walked away proud and excited for us to build or grow from the experience. Your unwavering support through the highs and lows made my four years unforgettable, as I'm sure it has for countless other divers.
Max Showalter (2015-17)
No words, whether written or spoken, can adequately express the impact Adam Soldati has had on my life and the lives of the other Purdue Divers. He is the embodiment of selflessness, authenticity, and empathy. He is the prime example of a leader and a mentor.
The energy that he brings to every practice is unwavering. I often times chuckle thinking about Adam walking into morning practices. We would sit up in dryland area at the crack of dawn reluctantly rubbing the sleep out of our eyes. Half stretching, with one leg up on the railing, we would spot Adam sauntering in the front doors of the pool and brace ourselves for the unstoppable freight train of energy that was about to burst through the doors. "What's up baby!!!!" Adam shouted as he reached his hand out to give you one of the most familial high fives you've ever experienced. He would toss his backpack to the side, pull out his chair and open our video analysis software and say "You know I was thinking a lot about you this weekend". Because that's exactly what Adam always does – think about others.
Adam cares so deeply and unconditionally about others, no matter how long or well he knows you. When I was being recruited, Adam called me to chat a few days leading up to my official visit. He had no ulterior motive other than to talk and get to know me. I remember talking for the better part of 90 minutes and feeling so comfortable, like I was talking to a father figure. My decision to attend Purdue was solidified in that moment. It was abundantly clear that Adam cared about me and his athletes on a level far beyond just diving.
Adam quickly became a second father to many of us. He was always there to shed knowledge when we felt lost, listen when we needed a good cry, and poke our buttons when we were at wits end. To this day, I hear Adam's voice during pivotal moments in my life acting like the angel on my shoulder. Being a part of the legacy that he has built is one of the biggest honors of my life. His mentorship has played a crucial role in shaping the person I am today. Without Adam, I wouldn't be half the person I am now.
Adam, just as you have tirelessly cared for us, it's time for the incredible community you've fostered with your vibrant spirit to care for you. We love you deeply. Thank you for everything.
Amber (Kerns) Malmgren (2003-06)
Adam, diving with you changed me in all the best ways. What I learned from you in that one year is difficult to into words because the nuance of it is both quiet and loud in my heart all at the same time.
All the years diving at Purdue were special, but the year I got with you defines my experience. Wenbo and others before him helped me define myself as a good teammate. You helped me define myself as an athlete. One day at practice, you took the time to teach me to spot. No one had ever tried to do that with me before, and it changed my ability to excel in the sport. I now had control in the air and could actually be consistent, making me feel like a team mate AND a competitor. You did that. You helped me become the best version of myself in the pool so I could translate that motivation to being my best version everywhere else.
You also made sure we knew, as athletes, we were/are more than the pool. Your demeanor was calm, fulfilling, excitement. It was inspiring and motivating. You pushed us in ways that were really about pushing ourselves and giving us the opportunity to see what we are capable of. This way of motivation, ever present and compassionate, has been central to me as a teacher and a parent. I learned so much from you that year. Diving under you was the pinnacle of my career and knowing you as a mentor defines much of my adult experience.
I pray that you are afforded an abundance of compassionate, motivated and inspiring care for you and your family. I hope you find peace in knowing this diagnosis is the beginning of something new. I hope the negative emotions of possible fears are acknowledged and quelled. You are an amazing man to know, and nothing ever changes such facts.
David Colturi (2007-2011)
Fortunate to be a part of Adam's second recruiting class, I came to West Lafayette in the fall of 2007 and quickly came to see him as a father figure like so many Boilermaker Divers. Adam has an uncanny ability to lead by example, like a best friend you always look up to. He seemingly effortlessly manifests virtues like courage, discipline, justice, and wisdom in his everyday life; and at the same time, is playful, curious, and always manages to keep a high-performing culture fun-loving and a constant source of joy. One of my earliest memories of fall training was Adam making fun of us for complaining about heavy weights training, and in our naïve response that he could never lift as much as us, he not only easily set the team's back squat record in his classic khaki shorts and crocs (before they were cool) in the old weight room by the 1-meter springboards, but also won a hilarious bet making Kyle Mitrione and I wear pink speedos in our first dual meet of the season. Adam is the quintessential leader, shoulder to shoulder with us in times of struggle and triumph. He's always there for us with an open door, heart, and mind – with guidance, compassion, and mentoring for any occasion.
While diving may not be as notorious as football or basketball, it's easy to mention Adam Soldati in the same sentence as legendary coaches like Nick Saban and John Wooden. Purdue Diving has been a powerhouse since Adam took the reins. It's a program that exudes excellence season after season, with a palpable feeling of excitement and grit every time you walk in the dryland center or on the pool deck with him. Adam instills a culture that fosters the development of the entire individual, not just athletic prowess. One of my favorite quotes he told me repeatedly still guides me to this day, "If you focus on the things you can't control, it will adversely affect the things you can control." Adam not only showed me what it means to be present and focused on the task at hand, he also provided opportunities for me to learn on my own the value of hard work. And how to be a man for others.
Like so many Purdue Divers, I wouldn't be the person I am today were it not for Adam. I am forever grateful to have been one of his athletes, continually using the skills he taught us to succeed in and out of the water. Adam has spread more light and positivity in 50 years than most could do in 50 lifetimes. In the words of George Bernard Shaw, Adam's example attests to, "I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community, and as long as I live, it is my privilege to do for it what I can. I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work, the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake. Life is no brief candle to me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got hold of for the moment, and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations." Burn brightly is an understatement. Adam, thank you for opening your heart and your home to so many of us. The world would be a better place if everyone had an Adam Soldati in their life.
Jenna Sonnenberg (2020-Present)
I am so lucky to have so many amazing memories with Adam, but it does make it hard to pick the ones I love the most. One of my favorite moments was during my recruiting visit to Purdue. I was just a junior in high school and extremely nervous trying to make a good impression. But Adam made it so easy. One of the nights we spent hours upon hours choreographing dances with Adam's kids, battling it out for the best dance. That night I fell in love with Purdue and the family built within the team.
Over my years diving at Purdue I have faced ups and downs, but Adam has always been a guiding light. He brings joy to every practice and my drive to get better each day comes from him and the environment he's created. Another moment I will cherish forever was at the 2024 NCAA Zones competition. It was tower day and Adam told me it was time to fight. After each dive I looked up to Adam and smiled and he gave me a fist pump. I felt like he was right alongside me the entire meet and it just pushed me to keep going. After the meet was over all I wanted was to give Adam the biggest hug because he gave me the strength to put it all on the line.
Moments like these are just a few of the dozens that I have accumulated over my time at Purdue and I truly believe I am the luckiest girl in the world to have been welcomed into the Purdue Family and into Adam's beautiful life. All my love goes to Adam and his family and I know Adam's strength, courage, and faith will help him fight this battle.
Max Miller (2023-Present)
I want to be just like Adam when I grow up. I feel so lucky to have had the opportunity to spend so much time with him, and I'm proud to have learned so much from such an incredible person.
I don't care how good of a coach Adam is. I will always see him as something so much more important and valuable than anything relating to diving, and when I look back on my time with him, I'll remember all the hours he spent helping me grieve my dad, or when he invited me to his family's Easter when I didn't have a family of my own, or when getting to see him at the pool and spend time with him was what made me look forward to practice every single day. Adam has been a consistent bright spot in so many lives, and I know that the world is a better place because of his impact.
Kirk Martin (1988-92)
Although I've only met Adam a couple of times and only spoke briefly, I am absolutely devastated to hear of his news! He has always seemed like a super great guy and has done just such incredible things with the Purdue Diving program. I was always proud to have been a Purdue diver, but that pride went 'though the roof' after he turned the program into a national and world powerhouse! Regardless of all that, though, I am just devastated for what this means on a human, everyday level for him and his family. So I wanted to send a message. Please let him know that there are divers out there from long before his time that are rooting for and praying for him and his family. I pray that he and they can remain Boiler Strong through this difficult journey!
COLLEAGUES, CO-WORKERS & MORE
Erin Lloyd – Kimiko Soldati's Teammate at Indiana & Synchro Partner
Adam and Kimiko, from the moment I met you both, you were like family. And not because I lived with you for six months! I'm forever grateful for you opening your home and hearts to me when I moved to The Woodlands. Not only do I have the utmost respect for you as a coach, but also, on a more personal level, the God loving husband you are to Kimiko. You showed me what I wanted to find in a husband one day. Thank you for being an amazing friend, a big brother figure, a cheerleader to Kimiko and I, and to leaving such a huge impact on my life. You are incredibly special and have a true gift at touching everyone's lives you come across. You and Kimiko have made a beautiful family and I'm praying for many memories and laughs together as you face this journey. You've got this and just know, there are thousands supporting you along the way! Love you so much Adam and Kimiko!!!!
Drew Livingston – Head Coach at LSU & an NCAA Champion at the University of Texas
I came to The Woodlands at the age of 13 as a part-time diver and had no intention of sticking with the sport. Adam Soldati lit a spark in me that has led me down a path of USA Diving national titles, NCAA championships, and now a growing career as a diving coach. He made an immense impact in my life in two years by investing in me as a young boy and showing me what can be accomplished with dedication and hard work.
Adam, it's been 20 years since you coached me, and I hope you know your lessons have never been lost on me. Thank you for being a part of my life.
James Bretscher – Purdue Swimming Assistant Coach (2023-Present), Brother of Alumna Emily Bretscher
When I look at Adam I see a person that has committed his life to something bigger than himself. His ability to love others is a rare thing to find. He is humble, wise, loyal and has an incredible amount of belief and faith in God. As a young coach, he is the kind of man I want to become. He is an incredible source of inspiration and encouragement on how to love well and find success in the midst of it. I am thankful to have shared the deck with him for a year.
Based off the stories in the Bible, I know that God chooses to use brokenness to show us his heart. I don't know how this story with ALS will play out but I am certain that God will use it for good.
Emma Burns – Assistant Coach at the University of Illinois
Thank you for putting everything you had into this sport and the athletes you coached. Your sheer passion to make divers into better athletes and human beings shows the type of man you are and the legacy you have created. Thank you for sharing your wealth of knowledge and resources to those around you. Without you and your willingness to help a young coach out, I wouldn't be the student I am to diving, just like the many others you have helped as they began their coaching journey. Your legacy will never die.
Lisa Werwinski – NCAA/USA Diving Judge
I've been blessed to share the pool deck with Adam over the past decade as a diving judge for the Big 10 Championships, Division I NCAAs, and numerous USA Diving Senior meets. Although we haven't interacted a ton on a personal level given our different roles, I've always had the utmost respect for Adam and how he runs his program with humility, integrity, and pride. He exemplifies what it means to be a mentor to student-athletes. Adam's presence on the pool deck will be truly missed. My family will be praying for Adam and his family throughout the journey ahead.
Ashlyn Kent – Student Manager (2019-22)
You welcomed me with open arms from the very first day I joined the team. You always made me feel included and a part of your team. I am so blessed I got to work with you and so lucky you are a part of my life.
Arika Gibson – Student Manager (2022)
I didn't spend much time with Adam, just half of the 2022 year. I really struggled adjusting to Diving numbers and my new routine. He was very patient and show that he truly cared about my growth. Adam and his family deserve the world, and I hope they get nothing less than.
Shannon McGoveran – Coworker at Hewitt
Adam, you are an amazing man full of inspiration and hope. I have been following your career since you left and am so proud of all that you've accomplished. I knew you would an amazing coach because of your positive attitude, your determination and your constant encouragement. You are facing such an unfair fight but I have no doubt you will face it with the same determination and fight you face everything. You and your family are in my prayers and I wish there was more I could do to help you. You are an amazing human being Adam!
Ben Turner – Purdue Swimming & Diving Communications Director (2010-Present)
Baseball was the main attraction when I made the move to Purdue in the fall of 2010. But many were wise to point out during my interview that diving was quickly becoming the most successful sport at Purdue. That turned out to be an understatement. Adam was patient with me during that first year as I got up to speed and was the first person to tell me about DiveMeets.com after David Boudia won his first of many Big Ten Diver of the Week awards of the 2010-11 season. Adam's patience and consistency are among his traits I continue to most admire to this day.
This is two years in a row now that a longtime pillar of what makes Purdue Swimming & Diving amazing is stepping aside. Dan Ross and Adam Soldati are very different on the surface but their ideals are very similar. I admire the way they found a way to work together to maximize team success and the experience of Boilermaker student-athletes at the aquatic center. But it also makes the transitionary phase, as they pass the torch, emotional for us that enjoyed their presence and personas. As was the case in the spring of 2023, I knew we needed to let people have a chance to share their thoughts and memories of Adam. Once again, compiling all of these tributes has been quite enjoyable as well as emotional. Thanks to everyone that took the time to contribute in some fashion.
More so than any sport/team I've worked with during my 20 years in the athletics communications industry, Adam's divers never ceased to amaze – annually finding new ways to impress me with their accomplishments. I saw David win his final two NCAA titles in person in Minneapolis in March 2011, but I've covered almost all of the big diving moments from afar in the years since. It makes for fun additional memories in my head about where I was when those moments happened – often times a baseball press box or hotel room. The fun locales: setting up to DJ my cousin's wedding when David won gold in London in 2012 and bowling at a Lebowski Fest when Brandon Loschiavo won at the Olympic Trials in 2021.
I was also in the press box at Purdue Baseball's Alexander Field when I learned of Adam's ALS diagnosis. A five-hour, 14-inning game followed. I believe that may have been another piece of foreshadowing in that Adam's got a lot of game still ahead of him. In recent years, seeing him shine on the field in a charity softball game at Loeb Stadium and on the links at Kampen during the Dan Ross retirement golf outing gave me a new appreciation for how truly well-rounded he is as a sportsman. I already knew about his all-around greatness as a person and a coach. Thank you, Adam, and all the best.
Tim Bertsch, Technical & Administrative Coordinator for Purdue Diving (2015-21)
I met Adam in the summer of 2015 after working with our women's basketball team since 2010. I was meeting with him about the possibility of filling a role he had created called Technical and Administrative Coordinator for the diving team. I didn't, and still don't, know exactly what the title meant, but I was at a point in my career and life where I was trying to figure out if balancing a career in Division I athletics with marriage and family was possible. I'm sure you'll see a theme from other testimonies, and I can assure you there was one in the athletic department at the time: if anyone was doing this, it was Adam.
Our conversation was brief. I knew nothing about diving but a decent amount about video analysis systems in sports. He knew a lot about diving but had hit a wall with his video replay system and needed help. So, I did something that probably has never been done in sports and more likely never been done at Purdue: I left a career in Big Ten basketball to pursue a career in diving. Those within the diving program know this, but I didn't do it out of a love or passion for the sport. To expand on that, I've never missed a Purdue basketball game, women's or men's, since I got to campus as a student, and I didn't even watch Boudia's gold medal round in 2012 as a senior at Purdue. But the few times that Adam would speak publicly, he was the only coach I saw who was achieving success at the highest level of his sport but seemed to care far more about the human experience of the people and athletes in his life than accolades or accomplishments within the sport. I was 26 at the time, recently married, and that was incredibly intriguing to me.
I spent the next six years sitting next to him for hours a day. I learned a lot during that time, and I want to highlight a few key takeaways.
The first lesson: your wife is your ultimate partner and teammate in life. Two guys sitting and talking for thousands of hours, and I never heard the man say a disparaging or negative word about his wife, Kimiko. I've had good and bad examples in my life of what a husband and partner should be, but as a young newlywed, I was ready to be influenced and am thankful every day that Adam was who I was around during that time. It didn't hurt that we both married women who were incredibly successful in sports that we were mediocre in, despite our best efforts.
The second lesson: criticize processes, not people. Time and time again, I would see and hear people approach Adam hoping to get him on board with an idea because his support carried weight. People can be tribal, and often if the idea involved two sides, each side would focus on criticizing the other. Adam constantly demonstrated that you don't have to go that route. Things can get done without bringing others down.
Lastly, Adam taught me how to find joy when it isn't easy to see. This one is personal for me, but it's real. My time working with diving ended in the summer of 2021. It ended for good and necessary reasons, but they weren't all good and necessary to me. I spent a long time focusing on that. Once my focus changed, I could suddenly see six years' worth of amazing moments and relationships that brought me nothing but joy. Since the diagnosis, Adam has shown us all the importance of where to turn our focus to find joy in anything. But to those who've been around him, know he's been doing that day in and day out for many years. For him and for that, I'm thankful.
MORE SUBMISSIONS
Joni & Brion Bertsch
Our two sons, Tim Bertsch (diving operations) and Joe Bertsch (as a student worker) were blessed to work under him a few years ago. To Coach Soldati and his family – thank you so very much for the impact you had on our sons Tim and Joe Bertsch. They were both blessed to work under your leadership and see what an amazing leader, coach, mentor, man of God looks like. They both spoke of their respect for you and we know the lessons learned will last a lifetime. As fellow believers we will lift you and your family up in prayer, knowing the power of God is unwavering.
Isaiah 40:31 – but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Haley Agnew – Daughter of Former Purdue Assistant J. Agnew & Former Neighbor of Soldati Family
The Soldati Family was an extension of my own family growing up and I am so thankful for the impact that both Adam and Kimiko have had on me. This news was so hard to hear but I continue to be inspired by the faith, resilience and purpose that Adam and his family are facing the uncertainties of the future with. Some of my greatest childhood memories were spent in the Soldati backyard on the tire swing, catching fireflies, and running around. It was such a blessing to grow up and spend so much time with great neighbors like you guys. Thank you for all the guidance, laughter and support you gave me, my family and many others over the years! God has done so much through you and has so much more to do.
Kendra (Hensler) Kitchel – Purdue Swimming Alumna (1986-90)
My daughter Taite (2015-19 at Purdue) was a swimmer so I interacted with Adam on a limited basis at the pool. However, I can attest to the impact he and Kimiko had on all young people they came into contact with. I believe it was the strong faith of Adam and Kimiko that helped guide my daughter through her own faith journey while at Purdue, helping her realize that she is loved and valued unconditionally. While I saw this effect in my own daughter, I am confident this effect was repeated many times over in many young men and women the Soldati's came in contact with.
Therefore, I was truly devastated to learn of Adam's diagnosis! I wish the entire family strength and resilience through the difficult time ahead. Adam and Kimiko – you have been a blessing to the entire Purdue Swimming & Diving family! Thanks for your time and devotion to all the young people you have helped to guide into adulthood. The prayers of the Kitchel Family are with you!
Joe Gerzema – Purdue Swimming Alum (1988-92)
Adam, congratulations on a Hall of Fame career as the leader of Purdue Diving. As a proud alumnus of this program, I am so grateful for your dedication, love & excellence you have provided to Purdue.
I recall meeting you for the first time at a Purdue Swimming & Diving homecoming gathering when you first started. Your eagerness and honor you had made a lasting impression on me. You were on cloud nine to have earned this opportunity, and you were going to make the most of it. You certainly did!
I wish you nothing but the best. May the Lord continue to watch over you and your family. God is great all the time. All the time God is great.
Hail Purdue! P2S&D!!!!
Jill (Wagner) Darkatsh, Purdue Alumna Class of 1991
Adam Soldati has been my daughter Riley's role model and dream coach for over 11 years in the sport.
Born and raised in Florida, who would have thought their paths would ever cross - but they did. Twice!
Rylie began springboard diving in 2012 at age six. Her diving heroes were (and still are) Adam Soldati and David Boudia. She dreamed of someday becoming a Purdue Diver.
At age 11, our family planned a trip to the Purdue area. She asked if it'd be possible to watch the Purdue diving team practice? I reached out to the Purdue Swim/Dive office. Coach Soldati replied to us personally and invited us to a practice. When the day came, he met us at the door, showed us around, introduced her to the team, encouraged her to set goals and work hard, and even teased her saying that "he'd see her in seven years!".
Watching Coach Soldati coaching his team that day was amazing. It was easy to see he was a master of his craft, treated his team with great respect, and that he walked out his faith in all he does. His team loved him and so did we - truly setting the bar for the coaches we have worked with over the years. This experience and his genuine interaction with Rylie inspired her to work harder and set even bigger goals! She continued to pursue her sport and follow Coach Soldati - cheering on Purdue and their divers every chance she got. That little interaction made a big impact on her!
And then...yes, seven years later, our little diver was all grown up when we heard that David Boudia would be offering a diving camp at Purdue in June 2023. What a dream come true for her! We wasted no time signing her up! After all those years of being the biggest Purdue Diving fan, the opportunity to be coached by her two greatest role models would finally be realized. At one point during the camp, Coach Soldati had Rylie in the belts and worked with her one-on-one – it was a moment she will treasure forever.
Adam Soldati touched our lives in a big way, although he may have never known or realized how much of an impact it was on our daughter... or what it meant to us. His example as a coach and mentor has challenged our daughter to walk out her faith as an athlete, live a life of integrity, hard work, and devotion, and has deepened her love for the sport of diving. We have always felt a special connection to Coach Soldati and appreciate all he has done to encourage and inspire our young athlete. It would be great if you could pass on to him our deepest appreciation.
Erin Roberts – Parent of a Diving Camp Attendee
Coach Adam!! My daughter (Ava) and I only met you for a short visit at the dive camp last June! Despite the short visit, YOU made a major impact! This impact was not necessarily on the boards, deck, or mats…it was in her heart and spirit! You showed her how a coach can be caring, supportive and kind! She felt it! She still talks about it! About you! She needed the gift of your integrity and character at that point in her life, more than the dive camp itself. Who knew this would been the experience she'd have when we signed up for the camp, but it was God's plan!! My daily prayers are for you, praying for peace and strength as you face this difficult and unexpected chapter! ALS is close to my heart for a variety of reasons-I will fight for funding, research, trials, and a cure!
Kolette Miller – Mother of Max Miller (2023-Present)
I have two memories of Adam that will forever be with me. The first is when we went on the recruiting trip three years ago. My son was already in love with Adam and the team. My husband and I were so impressed with Adam – his integrity, sincerity, commitment and love for his Purdue team. My husband told Adam that he felt confident sending our boy so far away to be with Adam. He said "if something should happen to us, I know that Max will be in the best hands to finish growing up." Fast forward to a year ago when the unthinkable happened to my husband, and I could still rest easy knowing that Max was heading off to such a loving, nurturing environment. My perspective changed from Max going to a great diving program to Max was going to be in good hands, and my Momma heart didn't have to worry. My second memory was actually multiple times throughout the year, my son would tell me over and over again how much he loves Adam. He said "I knew I loved him when I decided to commit to Purdue – I just didn't know it could be this much." I too appreciate and love Adam more than he will ever know.
Todd & Christie Wright – Parents of Daryn Wright (2021-Present)
For over 10 years as parents we have watched. We watched practices, competitions and we watched people. As our daughter progressed as a diver, we had early access to watch college coaches. How they interacted with their divers, how their divers interacted with them, and how they acted in public. Adam in our eyes was constant and transparent. No apologies and no posing. He models the traits we hope will continue to influence our daughter. Our family wanted her with Adam because of how he is as a human and how he lives his faith. She wanted Adam for the same reasons, plus his singing skills over the pool mic. His ability to train her and improve her skills in diving was a given, but the day to day interactions eased our hearts. We could place our trust in him, his family, and his staff. For that, we are Ever Grateful and Ever True.
COMMENTS COMPILED FROM SOCIAL MEDIA
Amanda Miller – Purdue Diving Alumna & All-American
Thank you Adam for all you have done for the sport, and for all us that were lucky enough to work with you. You are the best.
Laura Wilkinson – Olympic Gold Medalist for Team USA
Thank you Adam for your incredible impact not just on the sport but the lives of the athletes in it.
Andrew Capobianco – Olympic Silver Medalist for Team USA & Big Ten Diver of the Year
An incredible man and coach. Sending love to the Soldati and Purdue Diving Family.
Krysta Palmer – Olympic Bronze Medalist for Team USA
I will certainly be sending my prayers up for Adam. He is and will always be a legend in the sport of diving!
Katrina Young – Two-Time Olympian for Team USA
A truly unique and incredible person. Grateful for you Adam and sending prayers and loving energy to you and your family.
Dario Di Fazio – Head Diving Coach at the University of Miami, Two-Time Olympian for Venezuela
Adam, I have nothing but immense respect for you as a family man, mentor, coach and a wonderful human being. Your dedication to your family, the sport, and your athletes speaks volumes about the kind of person you are. I appreciate you. I'm sending you lots of love and positive thoughts.
Corey Cole – Head Diving Coach at the University of Indianapolis
Words can't explain how grateful I am and will always be. Thank you for giving me the honor of witnessing such an anointed leader! A true Pioneer and vessel for God's Glory!!! #GOAT
Natalie Kalibat Witten – Diver at USC & USA Diving Broadcaster
Praying for the Soldati family at this time. Thank you Adam for all that you have done and continue to do for our sport of diving!!! You are an absolute legend and we are grateful.
Carly (Mercer) Schmitt – Purdue Swimming Alumna (2012-15)
Sad to hear this. What an amazing God-fearing man and coach. You've had an impact even athletes you didn't coach directly. Grateful for leaders like you. Thank you Coach Soldati! Praying for you and your family.
Lindsay LoBue
Sending best wishes for your health and your family, Adam. Thank you for your impact and contributions to the diving community! You are in our thoughts!
Mark Meaney
I hope that you know that the influence you have is global. You have been such a positive and powerful influence in the life of Emily Meaney and our whole family. Please know that you are loved and that we will be here for you and your family as you were here for ours. Go with God.
Kenny Patrick
Thank you for everything! You are the perfect example of what a "coach" is to a student athlete. So much more than just developing athletic talent.
Tim Higbie
We stand with Adam in faith and support. My family and I are so grateful to have him and the Purdue family in our lives. The testimonies are genuine -- you only need to spend a few moments with him to be positively impacted for a lifetime.
Julie Vieta
We are at a complete loss for words. We truly cannot thank you enough for everything you have done for Maycey!! Forever in our hearts!!
Jill Johnson
Adam was an answer to prayer for our family during a difficult time.
Emily Gentilello
The best to ever do it – so grateful for everything you've done for us. You've left an indelible mark on all of our hearts and we are all better for it
Dr. Lauren Sporrer
What an incredible man and coach. He's an example to us all. Praying for him and his family and the divers
Mitchell Gauger
An absolute legend who did everything the right way. Thank you for what you did for diving and thousands of young kids in Indiana who joined this sport because of you and your athletes. Prayers for you and your family.
Terry Fletcher
Thank you coach for everything you have done to the World of Diving. Good luck as you work through your next life's journey.
